Of the most difficult cases with a psychiatrist ..
Those where the main cause of the disease the positions of the violence suffered by the child since childhood and in a systematic and growing, especially as the child goes out to this life smiling innocent in expression in the rejection of any negative phenomena against him and if the perpetrators of violence are those who are expected child protection and safety there is no hope and safety where this creature turns to the weak convergence and distracted his mind and strength to face the pain, because this is the beginning to defend himself in that community anger, hurt and starts to stage counter-violence.Often this pain precipitates in the mind and memory of the child and make him unable to realize what to expect and dream and aspirations of the outcome of these crises Vtkon the product is difficult sometimes to find the wizard his way out.Dr Ahmed Jamal Abu Azaim Consultant Psychiatrist and Head of the Egyptian Association for Mental Health that children who are exposed to abuse in the home, the battlefield extends from their homes and include the school and this leads them to school failure and failure in school and to the difficulties with the authorities of various community and in an attempt by these children who suffer beatings, living in a world of aggression is not comfortable, they tend to accompany the children like them and hear them always, "that my parents and teachers do not Ifamana but my friend understands me," a nucleus for the emergence of gangs and groups of thugs in the streets, schools, and avoid those who suffer from low self-esteem as a result of beatings and humiliation and the threat of retaliation and therefore should not wonder if the refusal of many young adults and their way of life and religious concepts ..We must not wonder that the resort had been beaten to use violence against their families and their community at the first opportunity where they can do so.And Dr Abu Azaim that some parents hit their children hate doing it was forced and often the father or the mother beating the child to solve their problems and not to raise the child or to achieve their demands, which pose a problem to them .. Research has shown that children who are beaten growing up of little respect for the same depressed and accept low-paid jobs so we must ask ourselves what are the alternatives to hitting the child.If increased anger of his actions?Calm down, do not react if you feel you are angry and lose control of yourself and that you will need to hit your child, leave the place temporarily .. Calm down, away from the baby back and relax in these moments that you will, about where your child or find alternative solution to the problem. Give yourself some time to rest many of the parents tend to hit children when they do not find time to relax in their lives so it is important to get parents to rest some time in reading or exercise, or walking, worship and prayer .. Be loving but be firm and usually occurs frustration and a rush to hit the child if he heard you speak several times and eventually you hit him to modify his behavior and as a last such situations, you can come close to the child and look in his eyes and stick with it tenderly and words gentle and determined what such as by telling him "I want you to play without noise."The alternative is to give your child better than beating the child to eat, when to play it is better to say, 'You either stop your game with food or Sadharpk. "If the oldest child to break something at home, do not hit him because if you hit him he felt anger and desire for revenge against parents who beat him and you will learn that if you break something once must be hiding or faking the charge with others or lying or simply does not see one for fear of beatings Is you want your child to respect you because you are afraid or because he loves you ..Better to warning him that if broken once will buy from pocket money and if you break the window of the neighbors could tell him, "You broke the glass and we Snsalehh and you share a part of the impulse," and ask him to remove the broken glass if he had baptized, the decision does not have the error to the extent that to take responsibility for repairing the error.Adds Dr. Abu Azaim that there are sanctions other than beating when children do things that were Nhiam them and the parents agree with him not to be repeated .. They tend to be punished and there is an alternative sanctions can be used and intended to re-conduct penalties and to the nature of these sanctions as an example to be asked of the child do housework or specific performance of some hard work outside the home as compensation for the non-hear speech .. Such sanctions make the positive nature of the child is committed to including forbade him and make him accept the punishment in that it was punished by the interest of the family. Withdraw from the debate .. Those children who answer loudly or emotionally strong and suffer and repeat the words of stubbornness lead the father or mother to slapped firmly on the face that they are the best in times like these to withdraw rapidly from the stances, the less your child will be waiting for you in the other room if you want to complain or talk again on the subject. Using the expressions for the soft but decisive .. Do not hit my hand when holding a small child anything and squeezed his hands thin to take something from him in his hand, but take the child to another place and give it to another game in order to occupy the attention of the child than his hand.Informed in advance when your child contraband have your child screaming and crying violently high, this may lose your temper. Children always use these intense emotions when they are punished for something they did not inform in advance or not to work as a result of their sense of helplessness in a situation, instead of saying to your son on the phone for example, leave the house immediately and your friend come to you now say to him five minutes to return to home .. That will allow the child to terminate what his hand to play or talk or memorization.
Those where the main cause of the disease the positions of the violence suffered by the child since childhood and in a systematic and growing, especially as the child goes out to this life smiling innocent in expression in the rejection of any negative phenomena against him and if the perpetrators of violence are those who are expected child protection and safety there is no hope and safety where this creature turns to the weak convergence and distracted his mind and strength to face the pain, because this is the beginning to defend himself in that community anger, hurt and starts to stage counter-violence.Often this pain precipitates in the mind and memory of the child and make him unable to realize what to expect and dream and aspirations of the outcome of these crises Vtkon the product is difficult sometimes to find the wizard his way out.Dr Ahmed Jamal Abu Azaim Consultant Psychiatrist and Head of the Egyptian Association for Mental Health that children who are exposed to abuse in the home, the battlefield extends from their homes and include the school and this leads them to school failure and failure in school and to the difficulties with the authorities of various community and in an attempt by these children who suffer beatings, living in a world of aggression is not comfortable, they tend to accompany the children like them and hear them always, "that my parents and teachers do not Ifamana but my friend understands me," a nucleus for the emergence of gangs and groups of thugs in the streets, schools, and avoid those who suffer from low self-esteem as a result of beatings and humiliation and the threat of retaliation and therefore should not wonder if the refusal of many young adults and their way of life and religious concepts ..We must not wonder that the resort had been beaten to use violence against their families and their community at the first opportunity where they can do so.And Dr Abu Azaim that some parents hit their children hate doing it was forced and often the father or the mother beating the child to solve their problems and not to raise the child or to achieve their demands, which pose a problem to them .. Research has shown that children who are beaten growing up of little respect for the same depressed and accept low-paid jobs so we must ask ourselves what are the alternatives to hitting the child.If increased anger of his actions?Calm down, do not react if you feel you are angry and lose control of yourself and that you will need to hit your child, leave the place temporarily .. Calm down, away from the baby back and relax in these moments that you will, about where your child or find alternative solution to the problem. Give yourself some time to rest many of the parents tend to hit children when they do not find time to relax in their lives so it is important to get parents to rest some time in reading or exercise, or walking, worship and prayer .. Be loving but be firm and usually occurs frustration and a rush to hit the child if he heard you speak several times and eventually you hit him to modify his behavior and as a last such situations, you can come close to the child and look in his eyes and stick with it tenderly and words gentle and determined what such as by telling him "I want you to play without noise."The alternative is to give your child better than beating the child to eat, when to play it is better to say, 'You either stop your game with food or Sadharpk. "If the oldest child to break something at home, do not hit him because if you hit him he felt anger and desire for revenge against parents who beat him and you will learn that if you break something once must be hiding or faking the charge with others or lying or simply does not see one for fear of beatings Is you want your child to respect you because you are afraid or because he loves you ..Better to warning him that if broken once will buy from pocket money and if you break the window of the neighbors could tell him, "You broke the glass and we Snsalehh and you share a part of the impulse," and ask him to remove the broken glass if he had baptized, the decision does not have the error to the extent that to take responsibility for repairing the error.Adds Dr. Abu Azaim that there are sanctions other than beating when children do things that were Nhiam them and the parents agree with him not to be repeated .. They tend to be punished and there is an alternative sanctions can be used and intended to re-conduct penalties and to the nature of these sanctions as an example to be asked of the child do housework or specific performance of some hard work outside the home as compensation for the non-hear speech .. Such sanctions make the positive nature of the child is committed to including forbade him and make him accept the punishment in that it was punished by the interest of the family. Withdraw from the debate .. Those children who answer loudly or emotionally strong and suffer and repeat the words of stubbornness lead the father or mother to slapped firmly on the face that they are the best in times like these to withdraw rapidly from the stances, the less your child will be waiting for you in the other room if you want to complain or talk again on the subject. Using the expressions for the soft but decisive .. Do not hit my hand when holding a small child anything and squeezed his hands thin to take something from him in his hand, but take the child to another place and give it to another game in order to occupy the attention of the child than his hand.Informed in advance when your child contraband have your child screaming and crying violently high, this may lose your temper. Children always use these intense emotions when they are punished for something they did not inform in advance or not to work as a result of their sense of helplessness in a situation, instead of saying to your son on the phone for example, leave the house immediately and your friend come to you now say to him five minutes to return to home .. That will allow the child to terminate what his hand to play or talk or memorization.
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